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SHAME: THE GAME

a transformative card game designed to empower you to
confront and overcome the toxic shame in your life

DEVELOPED BY SHAME COACH, PAUL CHAMBERLAIN
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THE SMART
FUNNY
TORTURED
COACH

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Paul is a Certified Crisis Advocate/Coach, Creative Executive and Podcast Host who has learned how to find the better part of our darker angels and shine a light on the unique gifts that make us powerful.

Get Smart, Stay Funny, Own Your Tortured Side

Every week, I send out stories, insights, and tools to help you make sense of your contradictionsβ€”because they’re not flaws, they’re fuel. No self-help B.S. Just the real work of turning struggle into strength. Want in?

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View fullsize We were built for the times we now find ourselves in: Smart brings pattern recognition and nerve. Funny brings Defiant Joy—the light that refuses to dim. Tortured brings fluency in pain: shame, trauma, desire—transmuted into power. Our
View fullsize Just another reminder that nowhere in this struggle, are we dealing with criminal masterminds. Just banal crass degenerates who got the jump on us. Kindness, community and comity will prevail.
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View fullsize Your friends don’t need fixes. They need first aid. Not advice. Not speeches. Just presence. Sometimes the right words at the right time are the difference between sinking and surviving. Friendship is medicine. This is the kit. πŸ–€ βΈ» #SmartFun
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View fullsize We question who we are because we forget who we are—until life demands recall. I’ve returned from alcoholism and depression. I’ve shrunk a pancreatic cyst and forced a rare leukemia into remission. I’ve walked through bankrup
View fullsize We’re taught to fear anger. Explosions. Raised voices. But the real violence often arrives in silence. No doors slammed. Just nothing. Indifference. Dismissal. Denial. These aren’t personality traits. They’re quiet assassins of co
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